Marriage is not something that should ever be taken lightly. However, that does not mean that all husbands and wives are perfect. If your fairy tale union has fallen apart, these 3 tips for a man to keep a wife happy are your perfect solution.
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Three tips for a man to keep your wife happy
1. Consider her Gripes
2. Find an honest discussion
3. Reasonable compromise
1. Consider Her Gripes
If your last big argument ended in a hiatus, this is the time you should be thinking about what the real issue is. What was the argument about? Is there something at the root of it or can the issue be taken at face value? Give some serious thought to the problem that caused the separation. Is this something she had been hinting at in the past?
Remember that the aim here is to make her happy.
2. Find an honest discussion
You have nothing to benefit from by telling her lies or saying only what she wants to hear. Just because she left does not mean she is automatically right. Instead, sit down (after cooling off, of course) and have a calm discussion, preferably in a neutral, private location.
This is where you both should bring your issues to the table. If you feel you did something wrong, say so. On the other hand, if you feel you did nothing wrong, ask her to explain why she feels as she does.
It is very important to note here that your discussion should be calm and constructive. You do not want to pick up the argument where you left it off. Instead, do not take criticisms as a personal attack. If you want a key tip on how to get your wife back, remember, that little understanding can go a long way. How to find an honest discussion in the book “The Relationship Cure” by John M. Gottman
3. Reasonable compromise
Every marriage requires compromises from both sides. A healthy, reasonable compromise may be needed to remedy the situation. Remember, this should be fair to both parties. One should not be required to sacrifice while the other only benefits. Strive to find a solution you can both be happy with. If the compromise is unreasonable, you may only be delaying a second argument.
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